It has been a long spring and summer and I thought I’d take this moment to fill you in on some of the details that surround the “talk” of my life. This is not a pity party, this is a WOW- maybe I can do more with my life, career, businesses, homes and family (I know some of you that are close to me are shaking your heads at that thought). But really, I may be a highly functioning multi-tasker or maybe I love being busy, creative, thought-provoking. Maybe I need to just slow down and enjoy every moment of the fact that I have a life that takes me from the sea to the prairies to the mountains almost every month…hmmm, how do I ask forgiveness and explain this:
My husband, love him to death, took a new position in Tampa- don’t love that- but it’s a great opportunity for him, in March. Yep, sold the house, bought a town home, moved us out, moved us in, moved 2 kids in and out of college apartments/houses, started a remodeling project on my pied-a-terre (Not in France but that’s okay) so that I have a place to land when I am being a ‘travel for her career’ women- cause let’s face it- I am an empty nester and I should be able to have a business, a life, a husband and so much more. The kids love that their mom works and sometimes plays. I am not suggesting that I can “do it all” because really can anyone really ‘do it all’? No.
Here is the thing…I need you, my customers/friends to know that I am here- in Illinois and Colorado and I am staying. You haven’t seen me a lot but that’s where I need the forgiveness, I need to know that you understand that I didn’t predict or anticipate any of this and If you’d said to me on Feb 23rd, ‘You are going to: 1. Buy a home in another state 2. Move out of one family home and 2 college apartments 3. Move into storage 4. Set up temporary housing for you AND one for your husband 5. Move your 2 college students into new places (in 2 separate states) 6. Move back into one home 7. Remodel another home 8. Move into said remodel 9. Drive cross country 3 times to make sure everyone has the vehicles and ‘stuff’ they need and #10. Finally get to be with your husband for 2.5 weeks for the first time in 4 months…YOU would have told me to throw up my arms and QUIT because no one should be willing or able to do all of that. (PS. Did I mention we had a college graduation in all of that as well?)
Well, I don’t quit! I just ask that you come in and say HI- because I would love to see you again. And see me is exactly what you will be doing. I will be in the Illinois and Colorado stores seeing you again for 2 weeks every month. I am saving all that boring office paperwork for the time I am in Tampa. Like I said, I don’t want sympathy, I just thought I would share where and what I have been doing for the last 4 months. And here is the thing- I have the privilege of being able to make 2 houses into homes and that is exactly what I love to do!
So, let’s reconnect. Let’s share a glass and make your home as special as you. Because no one actually wants to do what I’ve done these last months without a bright light at the end of the tunnel.
And YOU ARE MY BRIGHT LIGHT!
Please stop by and see me at Mingle with Mary on August 15th from 5-7pm- I’m looking forward to it!